November 2nd, 2025

And I just had a wild breakthrough. I’m flipping between relief and annoyance that I hadn’t figured it out yet after all of this time.

They say the simplest things can be the hardest, but projections and their relationship with interpretation are a fascinating study in introspection. I expected the two to be on the same schema of the self, but I did not expect they would be such close cousins.

My god, I think I figured out how to stop caring what people think. I’m probably turning this into a silly eureka moment in my head, but the teenager in me… she’s feeling some pretty solid relief.

Thank you for parenting the best you could while you were growing up too.

I love you, I miss you, I’m okay.